A woman asked the internet for help in this situation
The matter is economic, if the plates are cheap, open the door. If the plates are irreplacable, smash the glass on the right.
Open a bottle of wine. Have a drink. Wait for husband to come home. Start a random argument out of nothing. Go to the kitchen. Open the door and let it smash. Blame it on the husband. He will apologise and buy a whole new set of plates.
Build an identical house next to your existing house with only one difference, the plates would be on the shelf. Then delete the old house.
Flood the house. Open the cupboard without a risk.
Just let yourself die and respawn back to the last check point when the plates were nicely stacked.