The Full Listing of All Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

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Abasiophilia: attraction to individuals in neck braces, wheelchairs, casts, or different units that impair mobility that was documented for the primary time as occurring in a girl within the late 80s . It could be a part of a medical fetish or loved as a result of it restricts motion. Casting fetish is one factor of the kink neighborhood and a strategy to expertise this fetish

Abduction as seduction: a kink the place the abductor/kidnapper treats the sufferer in a loving method.

 

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Abrasions: individuals who take pleasure in this fetish like giving or receiving cuts and scrapes.

 

Acarophilia: arousal from scratching. Scratching is commonly a component integrated into tough intercourse.

 

Unintentional stimulation: refers to unintentional bodily stimulation and conditions that arouse adrenaline and trigger arousal.

 

Acrotomophilia: fetish for amputees [2]. Fetishists could favor a selected kind of amputee (arm, leg, and many others). An individual with a fetish for being an amputee has apotemnophilia. There could also be overlap with morphophilia.

 

Actirasty: arousal by the rays of the solar. This can be loved by intercourse exterior. Uncover learn how to have satisfying intercourse exterior.

 

Agalmatophilia: an individual with this fetish is aroused by statues, mannequins or different figurative representations. This can be associated to Pygmalionism, an attraction to gadgets of 1’s personal creation.

 

Age play: position play through which one or each companions pretends to be a distinct age/stage. Sorts of age play embrace infantilism, Daddy/daughter play, and diaper play, amongst others. Some kinksters differentiate between DD/lg and age play. Study extra at Shepherd Categorical.

 

Agoraphilia: fetish devoted to intercourse in public locations.

 

Aliens: kinksters fetishize about having intercourse with aliens, typically in an abduction and compelled situation. Alien dildos and masturbators

 

Altocalciphilia: a fetish for prime heels, often worn by girls however not all the time.

 

Amazons and authoritarians: fetish devoted to bodily robust girls like Amazons, girls with robust personalities, or girls in positions of authority.

 

Amaurophilia: kink for being unable to see, blinded or blindfolded throughout intercourse. Discover blindfold security suggestions at HuffPo and uncover extra about blindfolding your associate.

 

Anal penetration: a fetish for anal penetration with overseas objects (not intercourse toys or penises). Inserting objects that aren’t designed for anal security (porous, with no flared base, with sharp edges) may cause injury.

 

Anal intercourse: each giving and receiving anal intercourse could be a kink or fetish. Giving to a male with a strap-on is often known as pegging (learn our information to pegging right here.)

 

Anal toys worn below clothes: a fetish for utilizing/carrying anal toys reminiscent of butt plugs (uncover how these work) through the day and never simply throughout intercourse exercise. It could be a command of a submissive by a dominant, a part of anal coaching to take greater gadgets or penises and/or as a part of foreplay.

 

Anal coaching: the follow of making ready one’s anus for inserting giant gadgets.

 

Anasteemaphilia: a fetish for individuals over excessive sizes, ie an enormous or a dwarf. It may be used to seek advice from attraction to companions of differing heights even when these individuals aren’t particularly gigantic or tiny.

 

Nameless intercourse: a kink revolving round nameless sexual encounters the place one or each events is unaware of the opposite’s identification. Gloryholes are a standard type of nameless intercourse however they don’t seem to be the one type.

 

Aquaphilia: fetish for water and having intercourse in or round water.  This could lengthen to a fetish for swimwear or posing in water even when it doesn’t contain sexual exercise.

 

Asphyxiation: a extremely danerous kink devoted to choking, smothering and strangulation. Autoerotic asphyxiation is self-choking. To be clear, asphyxiation could be very harmful and has led to accidents and deaths

 

Autogynephilia: a kink the place males current/gown as girls (gynemimetophilia refers to males impersonating girls). Autoandrophilia is arousal on the thought of being a person. TSRoad talks extra about autogynephilia.

 

Autofellatio: a kink the place a person performs a blowjob on himself. Yoga could make this follow simpler or potential in keeping with Thrillist

 

Autoplushophilia: a sort of plushophilia the place an individual is aroused by the concept being a stuffed animal, particularly a cartoonish one

 

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Barebacking: intercourse with no condom. Barebacking is particularly widespread within the homosexual neighborhood, however this act might be harmful and result in STI transmission or being pregnant. Learn the way and why you need to use a condom. On this story, the writer admits to being “addicted” to the self-destructive conduct.

 

Lavatory management: when the dominant individual controls when, how and the place the submissive can urinate or defecate. Excessive lavatory management might be harmful.

 

Begging: kink for begging and pleading (to have intercourse, for launch/orgasm, to carry out an act, and many others.). Begging is submissive in nature.

 

Belonephilia: affinity to pins, needles and sharp objects. Belonephilia might be fairly harmful. See additionally knife play.

 

Bestiality: intercourse with animals. The identical as zoophilia in keeping with Wikipedia.

 

Bimbofication: The method of constructing somebody right into a bimbo or being changed into a bimbo themselves.

 

Blindfolds: a sort of bondage that blocks an individual’s imaginative and prescient. See additionally amaurophilia. Take a look at the ten issues that you must know earlier than you blindfold your associate.

 

Physique Inflation: The follow of inflating or pretending to inflate part of one’s physique, typically for sexual gratification.

 

Bondage: restraint of an individual, both by bodily merchandise (cuffs, rope, and many others.) or instruction (often known as psychological bondage). Restraint might be full-body (vacuum beds, suspension) or contain a single physique half such because the eyes (blindfold), mouth (ball gag), wrists and even thumbs. Bondage could embrace furnishings and units.

 

Physique modification: kink for quite a lot of physique modifications. This will likely imply something that adjustments the looks of a physique from tattoos to piercings to saline injections, however this kink may solely seek advice from particular physique mods reminiscent of lip stitching. Study extra from Dr. Mark Griffiths or take a look at this put up on Kinkly.

 

Branding: marking somebody with an emblem, phrase, and many others. Sometimes makes use of a heated object (reminiscent of a metallic hanger) to provide the model. Branding is harmful. One grasp states that they “can’t condone” it.

 

Breath play: choking and limiting breath.  Being aroused by this is called hypoxyphilia  This kink is a sort of edge play that’s harmful. Uncover the fundamentals of breath play with excessive warning from an skilled dominant and study the dangers on this Reddit thread.

 

Breast/nipple torture: the breast equal of CBT. Torture could embrace hitting, pinching, bondage, and different strategies of inflicting ache onto breasts.

 

Breast/nipple worship: the act of worshipshipping somebody’s breasts or nipples.

 

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Caning: the act of hitting somebody with a rod often known as caning.  Fleshy areas such because the again of the thighs and butt are suggested, however some individuals take pleasure in caning the bottoms of ft. Canes are historically comprised of wooden, however trendy canes could also be comprised of plastic, metallic or different semi-flexible supplies. Caning is a type of influence play that’s extra excessive than typical flogging and could also be harmful if finished improperly. Kinky Ever After gives first-hand steerage for many who wish to get into caning. You can too take a look at the Submeowsive put up on caning, and making canes.

 

Castration: An excessive fetish involving elimination of all or a part of a person’s genitals. Precise castration is extremely harmful. Most kinksters obsess over it with out really going by with it. This kink goes hand in hand with emasculation fetishes in addition to the ball busting, through which a person’s balls are crushed.

 

CBT: Cock and ball torture (CBT) is ache utilized to a person’s genitals. It could be a type of punishment. CBT can contain sneakers, sounding, stretching, influence implements and different instruments. CBT might be harmful.

 

Chasmophilia: aroused by crevices, caverns, or valleys.

 

Chastity: a fetish the place somebody’s entry to their genitals is blocked. Girls put on chastity belts, and males put on cock cages that forestall erection and launch. Also referred to as compelled abstinence or compelled celibacy. Chastity can be utilized as a type of self-denial or orgasm management. Study extra on Quora.

 

Choking: blood choking is the act of choking somebody till they go out. It’s extremely harmful (which we wrote about earlier than – take a look at that put up) and might result in mind injury. Choking is a sort of edge play: Hazard and Play has a information if you wish to strive.

 

Claustrophilia: this fetish is the alternative of claustrophobia. An individual turns into aroused or experiences orgasm by confinement to small areas. It is a kind of bondage.

 

Clothed intercourse (endytophilia): the affinity for intercourse whereas absolutely or partially clothed. You’ll be able to take pleasure in this kink whereas lifting your skirt or gown, so your man penetrates you. Pushing underwear to the facet can be a type of this fetish. Take a look at this Reddit thread about clothed intercourse. A selected variant of clothed intercourse is the clothed feminine, nude male (CFNM) fetish.

 

Cock and/or ball fetishization: an obsession with cock and balls.

 

Cock worship: just like breast worship. This fetish includes verbal, bodily and psychological adoration of a penis – together with pretend ones (strap-ons).

 

Collaring: the act of carrying a collar to indicate submission, loyalty and/or devotion to a dominant. A collar could also be seen as purely sexual or additionally romantic (just like an engagement/wedding ceremony ring). Collars could also be positioned on in public or personal collaring ceremonies, and dominants could present directions for carrying collars. The collar could also be an precise collar bought from a pet retailer, one that’s hand-tooled or a safe-for-work necklace or choker that may be worn in non-kinky areas. One dominant makes use of three collars, and there’s even a Wikipedia web page for collaring.

 

Consensual nonconsent: conditions the place one or each events have given prior consent for actions that will look like or really contain nonconsent. Rape play is a standard type. The “sufferer” has given prior consent to any such play however appears to withstand. {Couples} ought to negotiate boundaries beforehand, together with a secure phrase. Consensual nonconsent ought to by no means be spontaneous. If negotiations are prevented or secure phrases ignored, consensual nonconsent can result in actual trauma and even develop into sexual assault. Discover examples right here, learn one fan’s protection of CNC, or find out about how tough the topic is right here.

 

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Corsetry: the act of carrying a corset, generally to the extent of fixing the form and dimension of 1’s physique. Tight-lacing a corset allows one to efficiently waist-train.  Some dominants could use tight-lacing to restrict respiratory. It’s not simply restricted to your abs and tummy both. Learn extra at Bitch Media and Kinky Ever After.

 

Cross-dressing: dressing like a member of the alternative intercourse. For many individuals, it’s not essentially sexual whereas it’s for others. Cross-dressing can includes clothes, equipment, make-up, and wigs.

 

Crurophilia: A kink associated to legs. It’s widespread sufficient that you simply’ll discover a number of posts about it on Psych boards: right here and right here for instance.

 

Crush fetish: a specific fetish regarding crushing small animals or objects. Squashing kink is an identical obsession. Take a look at Wikipedia put up for extra.

 

Cunnilingus: this kink might be geared in the direction of receiving oral intercourse as a girl or giving it both as a person or lady. Cunnilingus performs nicely with pussy worship. In case your associate has a kink for licking pussy, you gained’t must persuade him to go down on (however you possibly can learn this if that’s not the case).

 

Cupping: small cups or jars are utilized the wrong way up to the physique, often the again. Hearth or a hand-pump creates suction that leads to non permanent bruising and a good feeling. Excessive cupping can break the pores and skin, however cupping is taken into account secure (the flame is barely used for suction and doesn’t burn the pores and skin). This BDSM Training web site has extra data on cupping.

 

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Dacryphilia: arousal attributable to tears or crying.  Wikipedia has some stellar data on dacryphilia.

 

Degradation: when you like when your man talks right down to you throughout intercourse, you could be into degradation. That is a kind of kinks that works particularly nicely with domination and submission. Simply since you like doing it (giving or receiving) throughout intercourse doesn’t imply you suppose any much less of your associate. Nevertheless, not everybody likes degradation, and that’s okay. Right here’s extra on the forms of degradation on Kinky Weekly and Wikipedia.

 

Dendrophilia: often known as Arbophilia. A sexual attraction to timber, both as a result of they’re phallic-shaped or due to the feel. Could overlap with xylophilia.

 

Diapers: this fetish is often a part of infantilism – however not all the time.

 

Self-discipline: giving or receiving punishment for perceived or outlined infractions. Self-discipline is a serious a part of many energy change relationships and one thing sometimes desired by masochists and administered by sadists. Discover out extra about self-discipline on the Dominant’s Information after which study the distinction between punishment and self-discipline.

 

Soiled speaking: having a kink for speaking soiled throughout intercourse is fairly tame. Some individuals won’t even think about it a fetish! Get suggestions for speaking soiled right here. See additionally narratophilia.

 

Doraphilia: enjoying with pores and skin, leather-based, or fur. Hyphephilia is an identical fetish for touching hair, fur, pores and skin and sure materials. Take a look at this put up by Dr. Mark Griffiths for more information.

 

Double penetration: penetration of a girl’s vagina and ass through a mix of toys, penises or each. Double penetration could also be a part of a bunch intercourse situation (MFM). Many Redditors are followers.

 

Dracophilia: a fetish for dragons. Fantasy fetish firms reminiscent of Dangerous Dragon make dragon dildos, together with those who ejaculate!

 

DVP: stands for double vaginal penetration. Not like double penetration (DP), which is simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration, DVP includes two penises or one penis and one toy within the vagina. It may be satisfying for all events; though, it requires lube and preparation. In DVP, just one associate could have sufficient room to thrust. Right here’s what one fan needed to say about DVP.

 

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Edge play: Any kink or fetish that’s thought of extra dangerous or excessive. Examples embrace choking, breath play, knife play, hearth play, and any exercise that leads to bleeding. Study extra on Wikipedia and Vice.

 

Elastophilia: a fetish for stretchy supplies together with spandex, latex, silicone, and many others. Elastophiles typically take pleasure in bouncing on these supplies or sinking deep down into one thing stretchy.

 

Electrical play: enjoying with uncontrolled electrical energy could be very harmful and might even result in coronary heart failure. Nevertheless, most individuals (other than these with pacemakers, coronary heart points, and different implants), can safely play with TENS items or violet wands to discover this kink. Sexpress tackles this topic.

 

Enemas (klismaphilia) [8] [9]: inserting a tube into the anus and utilizing a liquid (sometimes water, however different options could also be utilized together with urine) to scrub out the rectum. Enemas could also be used to organize for anal actions, however this isn’t vital. An enema may very well be a type of punishment or management. Take a look at a put up by Dr. Griffiths on this enemas.

 

Enkuopoiphilia: fetish for impregnantion. Now we have a complete article on the impregnation fetish.

 

Eproctophilia: arousal from flatulence (farts) [10]. It’s a sort of olfactophilia  Take a look at this text in Uncover journal about eproctophilia.

 

Exhibitionism: a standard fetish for being bare and performing sexually in entrance of an individual or individuals. Masturbating to your associate is a gentle type of this kink, however performing in intercourse home windows or at BDSM exhibits and events is a secure strategy to discover this fetish. Intercourse in public is partly exhibitionism. Associated to agrexophilia, which is arousal when different individuals learn about your sexual actions, and autagonistophilia, exposing oneself whereas on stage and being photographed. The counterpart of voyeurism. Study extra about exhibitionism on Wikipedia and at Intercourse and Psychology.

 

Exoticism: fetishizing members and components of Far Japanese tradition (Japan, China, and many others.), together with fictional worlds impressed by these places. A preoccupation with Geishas is widespread within the Western world, for instance. See additionally Otherness.

 

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Face fucking: an excessive type of blowjob the place a person roughly fucks a associate’s mouth. This kink isn’t inherently harmful, however it may be uncomfortable and result in tears, gagging and even vomiting.

 

Face sitting: the act of a girl sitting on a person’s face whereas he performs oral. Face sitting can embrace delicate suffocation however doesn’t need to. It’s extremely dominant. Take a look at different methods to dominate your man. Wikipedia has some nice data on face sitting aka queening/kinging.

 

Face slapping: a slap throughout the face brings you to consideration and corrects your errors. You’re unlikely to take pleasure in this fetish except you’re a little bit of a masochist, but it surely’s not as far out as some gadgets on our record of kinks. Study extra about face slapping at Kink Realm and take a look at this thread on Reddit for security and issues that may come up.

 

Fats fetishism: The sexual attraction to chubby or overweight individuals as a consequence of their weight and dimension. Gaining or feederism (talked about under as “Compelled feeding”) is a variation of fats fetishism the place the sexual attraction/gratification will not be solely gained from the “fatness” however extra from the method of gaining weight/getting fats.

 

Fellatio: Not often deemed a fetish or kink, however it may be for some. Take a look at the Blow Job Information for suggestions.

 

Figging: utilizing ginger root to create a burning sensation. It should be peeled earlier than it may be inserted anally or vaginally. You’ll be able to examine a figging expertise at Kinkster’s Information.

 

Combating/Wrestling: play preventing and wrestling is horny as a result of your physique proximity as you wrestle to keep up management. Even when you lose, you don’t actually lose! For those who’re turned on by a battle between different individuals, you’re not alone, both.

 

Hearth play: a type of edge play that includes flames and hearth. Kinksters needs to be cautious with hair, which might burn off and odor horrible (think about shaving first). Hearth/warmth could also be contrasted with chilly/ice. Hearth play might be harmful. BDSM Wiki breaks down the dangers of fireplace play.

 

Fisting: the act of penetration with a full hand. Not like the title suggests, your associate ought to begin along with your hand straight and thumb tucked below his fingers like a duck invoice. After he inserts his knuckles – the widest a part of his hand – he can curl his fingers right into a fist/ball form. Fisting requires time, endurance, belief and plenty of lube. Study extra right here.

 

Flogging (flagellation): hitting somebody with a multi-tailed software often known as a flogger. Relying upon the energy of the swing, flogging can vary from warm-up to harsh influence that attracts blood. Floggers tails are available many supplies: fur, leather-based, suede, rubber, silicone, and ball-chain to call just a few. Wikipedia has extra on flogging and you’ll uncover the historical past and chemical reactions of flogging right here.

 

Meals play: incorporating meals into intercourse. This will likely imply utilizing somebody as a dish or desk, overlaying your associate’s physique with meals and licking it off (suppose whipped cream or chocolate sauce, however you may get artistic!). Meals play might be enjoyable, however beware that enjoying with meals close to your vagina may contribute to a yeast an infection. Extra on that right here. A fetish for meals is called sitophilia.

 

Foot fetish (podophilia): a foot fetishist enjoys ft sexually. This will likely contain footjobs, licking and sucking, massaging. Foot worship in an influence change scene can take the type of sprucing sneakers or boots even with a tongue or worshipping ft! Dr Griffiths writes in regards to the foot fetish whereas some fanatics element their experiences.

 

Compelled feeding: a kink for forcing somebody to eat, probably till they achieve weight. This fetish is a sort of physique modification fetish. Feederism generally particularly refers to males feeding girls however can be utilized with none distinction. Right here’s a first-hand account on XOJane.

 

Formicophilia: arousal by bugs or by bugs crawling on and nibbling the physique. The fetish for bees and wasps particularly is called melissophilia whereas an attraction to spiders is called arachnophilia.

 

Frotting: rubbing of two penises collectively. One man could maintain the penises collectively throughout this act. Related actions embrace frottage (rubbing whereas clothed for sexual stimulation) and frotteurism (rubbing or fondling an unsuspecting/non-consenting individual). Wikipedia might be the very best place to study extra about frotting.

 

Furries: this kink is scorching, actually. Furries gown as animals or humanoid animal creatures, generally decked head-to-toe in fur. They typically don animalistic dildos through strap-ons to boost their furry play. Many furries have interaction in roleplay and cosplay as a part of their way of life, which might develop into fairly costly. Furry fandom is so widespread that Vainness Truthful and the New York Put up have written about it.

 

Notice that some furries have interaction solely in costumes and roleplay solely and no sexual exercise (though some individuals don’t see a distinction). To distinguish, “yiffy” refers to a sexualized furry fetish.

 

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Gags: a type of mouth bondage. Gags are available many kinds, however ball gags are the most typical. They could additionally take the type of bit, cleave, pacifier, penis or spider gag, amongst others. Mouth gags aren’t often harmful, however they are often uncomfortable. Make certain to suit the gag correctly to your (or your associate’s) mouth. AskMen discusses this widespread fetish right here. You’ll additionally discover a  full record of gags is on Wikipedia.

 

Gerontophilia: attraction to somebody from a a lot older age group. Could-December relationships (what’s this? came upon right here) can fall into this kink if the members of the couple particularly fetishize the age distinction. Scientific American explains this in additional element.

 

Golden showers: See watersports.

 

Group intercourse (Polyiterophilia): group intercourse and a number of celebration situations might be fairly scorching, however they can be uncomfortable. Threesomes are one of many extra widespread preparations (and a fascination with three-person intercourse is called triolism/troilism). Wanna strive a threesome your self? Learn how to make it superior.

 

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Haematomania aka hematolagnia : lust for blood and bleeding. Could embrace wounds, vampirism or biting to attract blood. Ravlishly has an in-depth put up on somebody with this fetish. A Kinkster’s Information to blood play discusses any such edge play. It goes with out saying that this one is clearly fairly harmful.

 

Harpaxophilia: the fetish for being robbed. Might be performed as a task in consensual non-consent. Chrematistophilia is an identical kink for being compelled to pay for intercourse.

 

Helplessness: any position through which somebody is helpless. They could be the sufferer to their roleplay associate (robber, kidnapper, and many others), or their associate could act as a savior (consider a princess who wants saving or a clumsy housewife). Study extra about helplessness as a part of worry play.

 

Homeovestism: attraction to the clothes of 1’s personal gender or by individuals carrying the clothes accepted as acceptable for his or her gender by society. This fetish was first outlined by George Zavitzianos [11].

 

Hybristophilia: arousal by the data that one’s associate has dedicated a heinous act or crime. This could embrace dishonest, mendacity, theft, or homicide. That is generally often known as Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome after the American bank-robbing and murdering duo. One associate is turned on by the opposite’s dangerous deeds. Some individuals discover themselves interested in criminals who’re in jail. Learn extra on Wikipedia.

 

Hypnotism: in an erotic state of affairs, hypnosis may very well be a type of consensual nonconsent. Check out this kink with some horny magician/assistant position play. As all the time, Wikipedia has some nice data on erotic hypnosis.

 

Hypoxia: paraphilia for being submerged below water to limit respiratory, a sort of erotic asphyxiation. This may be deadly [12].

 

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Immobility: a kink involving bondage and compelled feeding.

 

Affect play: any exercise involving hitting, both with physique elements or different instruments. Hitting, punching, spanking, flogging, whipping and paddling are only a few types of influence play, and depth varies with the software and energy. The Dominant Information has a complete class for influence play. and the Huffington Put up has some fascinating recommendations on it too.

 

Impregnation: the fascination with making somebody pregnant/conception throughout intercourse, sometimes from a person’s standpoint. Dr. Mark Griffiths has some fascinating evaluation on it and right here’s what Broadly has to say on it.

 

Imprisonment: obsession with being locked inside cages, cells, coffins or different areas.

 

Infantilism: a selected kind of age play the place somebody performs an toddler/child. This could contain pacifiers, diapers, bottles, and many others. A second individual could act as a nanny or guardian. Our recommendation is to take a look at Wikipedia for data on this one.

 

Inner cumshots: just like a semen fetish however arousal is because of being ejaculated into moderately than on. For those who’re making an attempt to keep away from being pregnant, anal intercourse is the one secure strategy to have interaction on this kink. However STIs might be transmitted by semen even throughout anal intercourse.

 

Intercrural or interfemoral intercourse: thrusting between somebody’s thighs with out penetration. Wikipedia has extra on it.

 

Intoxication: taking medicine or alcohol throughout or earlier than a intercourse scene. Intoxication can result in poor decision-making, dangerous conduct and errors that may very well be harmful and even deadly, particularly when combined with edge play.

 

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Jerk off directions (JOI): Being instructed to informed to to masturbate.

 

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Katoptronophilia: a fetish for having intercourse in entrance of mirrors. Some persons are merely turned on by seeing themselves in a mirror.

 

Keraunophilia: a sexual fascination with thunder and lightning – just like arousal from thunderstorms (brontophilia). You’ll be able to’t incorporate it into your intercourse, however a thunderstorm makes an excellent backdrop for horny occasions! Many individuals discover their ranges of need improve throughout storms. Learn extra about it at The Debrief.

 

Kigurumi: this fetish is all about carrying anime masks, particularly males who put on masks of ladies.

 

Knife play: a sort of edge play exercise that includes precise knives or blades or the implication of. Breaking somebody’s pores and skin throughout kinky intercourse may very well be fairly harmful. Security guides at BDSM wiki might help to forestall something critically harmful from taking place. This put up from a Redditor affords recommendation in your knife play scene.

 

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Lactation: a lactation fetishist is all about lactating mammaries, that’s, boobs producing milk. Many ladies benefit from the sensation of nipple suckling, and their companions take pleasure in breastfeeding. Lactation fetishists could encourage lactation when it wouldn’t naturally happen as a result of the milk particularly is their kink (lactophilia), or have interaction in breastfeeding with out milk. Discover ways to breastfeed your man. You could find solutions about this fetish on Quora and Wikipedia.

 

Latex/rubber: latex, rubber, PVC and comparable supplies appeal to our eyes with their sheen. They make for excellent fetish images, too. Thankfully, you may get your kink on with the assistance of many retailers focusing on latex gear and clothes. Wikipedia has an entry on latex fetishism that may fill you in with extra particulars. You’ll be able to study extra in regards to the attract of latex on this put up on Vice and this one on Alternet.

 

Lesbophilia: males with this kink take pleasure in lesbian intercourse greater than your typical male. Some could go as far as to think about themselves as girls in girl-on-girl situations.

 

Lithophilia: a kink for rocks, stones, or gravel. This can be utilized nonsexually.

 

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Macro Fetish: individuals with this kink take pleasure in companions who’re large. This will likely imply plus-sized, however it could possibly imply giants within the realm of fantasy roleplaying and writing. Wikipedia has extra as does Alternet.

 

Macrogenitalism: a fetish for genitals which can be notably giant. This isn’t restricted simply to penises.

 

Maiesiophilia: sexual attraction to pregnant girls or giving beginning.

 

Maschalagnia: a fetish devoted to armpits, together with, kissing, licking and smelling. This kink may contain inserting penises within the armpit for stimulation. Dr. Mark Griffiths breaks down the topic. Fetish.com medical play 101. take away

 

Masochism: enjoyment of ache, punishment, and torture. Somebody who feels this is called a masochist. Masochists are sometimes however not all the time submissive. Quora customers reply the query “Why are some individuals masochistic?”.  Psychology In the present day additionally has some perception into the psychology of people who find themselves masochists.

 

Mechanophilia: sexual attraction to and arousal by machines. Whereas different fetishes objectify robots, this one can embrace a greater diversity and may associate with the need to have intercourse in or on a machine reminiscent of a automotive, bike, airplane, and many others. The Wikipedia entry on mechanophilia discusses examples and references.

 

Medical play: position play involving medical situations, medical implements (scalpels, needles, speculums, and many others) and/or medical uniforms. Medical play typically includes an examination of 1 individual by the “physician,” who could benefit from the state of affairs. Play piercing can be widespread in medical play. Any play that breaks the pores and skin might be harmful if an an infection happens. This put up on medical play at Kink Weekly explains extra.

 

Menophilia: an obsession with menstrual blood. Fetishists of this sort don’t thoughts interval intercourse. The truth is, they could favor it. They usually would possibly like taking place on a girl when she has her interval. Study extra about menses kink right here.

 

Merinthophilia: the fetish for bondage. See additionally vincilagnia.

 

Mess fetish (hygrophilia): when you would moderately keep away from the moist spot on the mattress, then this kink in all probability isn’t for you. Mess fetishists benefit from the mess created by sexual fluids, each female and male fluid. They could use the fluids as lubes, to drink, to “paint” on their associate’s physique or passing it backwards and forwards orally (snowballing).

 

Micro fetish: the alternative of a macro fetish. Kinksters take pleasure in when companions are a lot smaller than them or being the smaller associate. Those that fall into the latter group could benefit from the feeling of being crushed throughout intercourse. Right here’s a thread by somebody who has a micro fetish.

 

Navy: a navy fetish that usually goes hand in hand with a uniform fetish.

 

Mixophilia: a kink associated to watching your self having intercourse. Recording intercourse and mirrors are two methods to take pleasure in this kink. Elite Each day tries to reply why we love watching ourselves have intercourse. This thread on Reddit exhibits that many individuals take pleasure in this exercise.

 

Morphophilia: individuals with this fetish are interested in our bodies and physique elements which can be totally different from the norm. They may take pleasure in amputees, dwarves or individuals with different deformations. Here’s a newbie’s Information to Morphophilia.

 

Mummification: a kink the place somebody is sure totally or practically totally to forestall virtually all motion. A vacuum mattress can obtain full mummification as can plastic wrap, however it may be harmful if bindings forestall airflow. Mummification may contain excessive temperatures, so hydration is a should to do it safely. First-person POV account of mummification. Kink Lovers has a mummification fetish FAQ.

 

Muscle tissue: some individuals have a fetish for outlined or giant muscle groups. Muscle worship is one variant of this kink. Muscle worship on Wikipedia.

 

Mysophilia: this fetish is for filth and gadgets which have been dirtied, particularly by bodily fluids throughout intercourse. Used underwear is a standard instance. Right here’s a newbie’s information to salirophilia and mysophilia by Dr. Griffiths.

 

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Narratophilia: a fetish shared by those that take pleasure in telling and listening to soiled tales, speaking about intercourse or incorporating soiled speak into intercourse. Sexwiki seems into narratophilia as a potential dysfunction in addition to a wholesome kink. Dr. Griffith additionally has a short overview of narratophilia.

 

Nasolingus: a fetish for sucking on somebody’s nostril.

 

Nasophilia: fetish for noses. Apparently there’s a Wikipedia entry that notes Freud urged the nostril was a metaphor for the penis.

 

Necrophilia: the fetish for human corpses. Wikipedia presents the assorted elements of necrophilia. Blumhouse particulars 5 notable circumstances.

 

Necrozoophilia: fetish for deceased animals.

 

Needle play:  enjoying with needles can contain breaking the pores and skin and non permanent piercing. Needles can be used to scratch. BDSM Wiki gives needle play recommendation and security tip  right here. Painful Pleasures consists of security data on needle play in Spanish.

 

Nonconsensual: a kink for intercourse with out consent (rape). All nonconsensual sexual actions and play are types of sexual assault or rape. That is unlawful, traumatizing and might be harmful.

 

Nullification: kink for eradicating any physique half. That is very harmful.

 

Nullo: an excessive kink for elimination of genitals. In follow, nullo could be very harmful and might even be deadly. Wikipedia has extra.

 

Nyctophilia: when you love the evening, you might need this fetish. It might probably additionally seek advice from fetishizing darkness. Scotophilia has the identical that means. There may be even a complete web site devoted to nyctophilia.

 

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Objectophilia (Objectum Sexuality): often known as fetishism. This refers particularly to arousal by and sexual exercise with an inanimate object reminiscent of sneakers. Wikipedia has extra on it.

 

Oculolinctus: need to lick eyeballs. In response to Wikipedia, that is an “alleged” fetish.

 

Oculophilia: an obsession with the eyes. Get a glance into oculophilia right here.

 

Odaxelagnia: kink for biting or being bitten. Could or could not contain blood. Here’s a private account by somebody who likes to be bitten.

 

Odontophilia: the overall fetish for enamel, which might embrace biting, licking enamel and even eradicating them.

 

Olfactophilia: attraction to smells, particularly pungent physique odors. Osmolagnia is the fetish for sweat or gaseous emissions particularly. Wikipedia is a good reference on the topic.

 

Omorashi: the Japanese phrase for a fetish associated to having a full bladder and urinating on oneself.  Typically shortened to “omo.”

 

Orgasm denial: kind of play the place somebody’s orgasm is denied totally, restricted/ruined or delayed. Kinkly recommends making an attempt orgasm denial.

 

Otherness: sexual attraction to somebody from different locations, together with aliens. See all xenophilia and exoticism.

 

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Parthenophilia: a fetish for virginal companions. Dr. Mark Griffiths has nice data on each temporary have a look at parthenophilia and it’s relative harmatophilia.

 

Partialism: sexual obsession for particular physique elements and never the entire. Eyes, faces, forearms, and ft are all widespread objects of obsession, however any physique half will do. Wikipedia has a listing of widespread partialisms.

 

Pecattiphilia: fetish for sinning and breaking non secular guidelines. Dr. Griffiths talks about responsible pleasures.

 

Pediophilia: fetish for dolls, particularly intercourse dolls. Right here’s a thread from somebody with a doll fetish that hopefully offers you somewhat extra perception into it. about it. SexWiki discusses the historical past and forms of partialism.

 

Penis Humiliation: a kink involving insulting a person’s penis, together with dimension, look, and efficiency. Uncover extra about small penis humiliation on A Kinkster’s Information.

 

Peodeiktophilia: displaying one’s penis to others (flashing).

 

Pet play: any kink the place somebody acts like a domesticated pet. Cats and canines are particularly widespread with leashes, collars and meals/water dishes used as props. Wikipedia article on the several types of animal roleplay.  Metro additionally has an article on pet play with photographs of costumes.

 

Phalloorchoalgolagnia: arousal from ache directed towards male genitals.  See additionally cock and ball torture (CBT).

 

Phallophilia: obsession with giant penises. Many individuals share this kink on the Expertise Mission.

 

Phobophilia: sexual obsession with being afraid. This fetish might be directed towards hate in addition to worry. Mic tackles the organic connection between arousal and worry.

 

Phygephilia: fetish for being a fugitive on the run.

 

Pictophilia: fetish for watching porn, particularly of the identical actor.

 

Play piercing (Piquerism, Picquerism): play piercing is carried out for non permanent ornament in addition to for the feeling of breaking the pores and skin. Wikipedia has extra on this kink.

 

Plushophilia: fetish for stuffed animals. These individuals could have a kink particularly for teddy bears, and so they could also be furries. Reddit has quite a few communities on stuffed animals.

 

Pony play: a kink for appearing like a pony or its grasp. “Ponies” can put on every thing from blinders to bits to bridles to pretend ears and hooves. Ponies are educated by their masters and should even do guide labor. cpony is the final word useful resource for pony play fanatics.

 

Psychrophilia: arousal by being chilly or watching others be chilly. Having intercourse in freezers or meat lockers or round ice would possibly fulfill this kink. In different contexts, a psychrophile is an organism reminiscent of micro organism that grows in excessive temperatures such because the poles or deep ocean.

 

Being pregnant: this kink goes past a girl’s pregnant glow. Some individuals simply can’t get sufficient of a pregnant lady’s highly effective and horny physique. It’s so widespread that there are three totally different names for it: preggophilia, and maieusophoria. Your associate could even be stunned by how turned on he’s while you’re pregnant – and your hormones might need you wanting extra intercourse, too. Uncover how being pregnant impacts your hormones. One man who loves pregnant girls breaks it down on this article on Jezebel.

 

Psychrocism: fetish devoted to being chilly, having intercourse with a chilly associate or utilizing chilly objects (ice cubes, chilly dildos, and many others) throughout intercourse. Dr. Mark wrote the newbie’s information.

 

Pteronphilia: kink for being tickled particularly by feathers.

 

Pubephilia: obsession with pubic hair. A love for pubic hair has been expressed in literature and artwork. Study extra on Wikipedia.

 

Pygmalionism: sexual obsession with human-like photos, particularly while you made it your self. This fetish could result in stimulating oneself with statues or mannequins.

 

Pygophilia: partialism to butts and seeing, touching and enjoying with them. Reddit chimes in with concepts to please a butt fetishist.

 

Pyrolagnia: sexual arousal from watching or setting fires. Taking part in with hearth is harmful. At the very least one research has been finished on the topic [13].

 

Pyrophilia: a fascination with hearth. Setting fires and utilizing hearth throughout intercourse might be harmful. Nevertheless, therapeutic massage candles can be utilized safely due to the wax’s low melting level, and hearth cupping will not be often dangerous. Wikipedia has extra. Uncover extra in regards to the sexual obsession with hearth right here.

 

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Quirofilia: fetish for palms. Some individuals fetishize sure elements of the hand such because the fingers or fingernails. Others could favor palms of a sure dimension or form. Nonetheless others with this fetish could take pleasure in seeing palms performing sure actions. It may very well be masturbation or one thing nonsexual reminiscent of washing the dishes.

 

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Rape fantasy: a fetish for appearing out a fake rape (consensual nonconsent). This fantasy can happen on each the sufferer or perpetrator’s sides. Arousal on the thought of rape is called raptophilia. Wikipedia has extra on this and you’ll examine one lady’s actuality of enjoying a rape fantasy. Uncover different widespread fantasies on this put up.

 

Revving: kink for watching somebody rev an engine, particularly after they put on heels. Also referred to as “pedal pushing” or “pedal pumping.” There are many movies on porn websites and even Youtube that includes girls in naked ft or excessive heels pushing the fuel pedal. Typically these girls are known as fuel pedal honeys.

 

Retifism: the fetish for sneakers and footwear. Also referred to as altocalciphilia. Wikipedia has some actually nice data on this fetish.

 

Rhabdophilia: a fetish for receiving bodily beatings reminiscent of flogging or whipping. The responses right here make clear why some individuals take pleasure in “violent” actions together with flogging.

 

Robotism: kink for robots, cyborgs or androids. Discover out extra right here.

 

Ropework: a kink for rope as used as the precise kind of bondage. Well-liked forms of ropework embrace the Japanese-inspired shibari, extra appropriately referred to as “Kinbaku”. BDSM Wiki has a newbie’s primer on rope bondage.  This Reddit put up has tons of helpful data for getting began as does this thread.

 

Rimming: a kink for giving or receiving rim jobs. ? Take a look at our information right here. Take a look at the ideas of 1 rimjob lover. One other author on Thought Catalog goes far sufficient to name life with out rimming “incomplete.”

 

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Sadism: the kink for offering ache. Masochists and sadists typically come collectively to satisfy each other’s kinky wants. Study what sadists really do in mattress. You can too learn this enlightening Q&A with a sexual sadist.

 

Hey, do you suppose you could be kinky? You would be proper! Discover out extra.

 

Savantophilia: fetish for individuals who have a cognitive impairment or delay.

 

Scatophilia a fetish for fecal matter. Also referred to as coprophilia. Wikipedia has extra on this one.

 

Sensation play: a lightweight kink the place companions change sensations on the pores and skin. Gadgets with totally different textures (smooth, laborious, bumpy, easy, chilly, scorching, and many others) might be run throughout the pores and skin. Ache isn’t concerned, however you possibly can alternate between ache and sensation throughout gentle BDSM play.

 

Sensory deprivation: any play that forestalls somebody from utilizing one among their 5 senses. Blindfolds block sight, gloves forestall contact, earmuffs deprive the sense of listening to, and many others.

 

Siderodromophilia: a fetish for trains or participating in sexual exercise on a practice.

 

Slime fetish: a kink for slime and slimy issues. Tentacles are a major instance of a slime fetish in widespread media. This fetish is carefully associated to the mess fetish.

 

Sneezing Fetish: a kink for watching another person sneeze. This individual is often bare. Sneezing elicits a bodily response considerably just like orgasm. Individuals with a sneeze fetish may additionally take part in tickling and compelled urinating kinks. Study extra on the Each day Beast.

 

Snuff: a fantasy fetish for killing somebody or being killed. Snuff is commonly thought of to be an city legend, and it’s an clearly harmful and unlawful in follow.

 

Somnophilia: the fetish for sexual companions who’re asleep. It’s a uncommon fetish [14]. Individuals with this fascination could benefit from the “sleeping princess” trope. In actuality, a associate ought to specify prior consent to sexual exercise that occurs or begins whereas they’re asleep as a result of sleeping individuals can’t give consent. Definitions differ, nonetheless. Study extra at Psychology In the present day on Somnophilia.

 

Sounding: a kink for inserting skinny tubes, often fabricated from glass or metallic, into the urethra. This is without doubt one of the most typical types of urethral play [15]. Kinksters typically use medical sounds or comparable instruments, and sounding might be a part of medical play. Sounding might be harmful, particularly if the merchandise inserted breaks off internally or will not be sanitized beforehand. The Each day Beast addresses security when sounding.

 

Spanking: this can be a fetish that many individuals have tried within the bed room. A agency hand comes into play as punishment or enticement in lots of energy change relationships, together with home self-discipline (extra on that right here) relationships and schoolgirl roleplay. You would possibly take pleasure in spanking on occasion even when you don’t think about your self all that kinky, however spanking can be fairly excessive. Examine Jillian Keenan’s love for spanking or this confession from somebody with a spanking fetish.

 

Learn: Erotic Spanking: The What, Why & How

 

Stigmatophilia: the fetish for piercings and generally tattoos. See physique modification fetish. Dr. Griffiths can fill you in.

 

Stockings: gadgets which can be typically fetishized. Some individuals like all of them. Others favor these which can be lace-topped, hooked to a garter belt or with a visual seam down the again. There may be an extremely energetic subreddit the place Redditors put up photos of ladies in stockings.

 

Strap-on: fetish particularly for utilizing strap-ons. Anal, oral or vaginal penetration might be achieved. Anally penetrating a male with a strap-on is called pegging.

 

Stygiophilia: arousal by ideas of hell and everlasting damnation.

 

Stuffing: consuming till the purpose of bodily ache. Subreddit for Stuffers.

 

Suspension: the follow of suspending somebody from the bottom or being suspended your self. Suspension might be achieved with ropes, harnesses and different units and gadgets. For those who ignore security measures, suspension might be harmful. Wikipedia has extra on this. One writer writes about how suspension can relieve stress.

 

Symphorphilia: fetish for watching automotive accidents or different traumatic incidents. Wikipedia has extra on this one.

 

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Taphephilia: fetish for being buried alive. This can be related to an imprisonment kink.

 

Teasing (Tantalolagnia): To take pleasure in teasing as sexual gratification. This can be extended sexual teasing or teasing within the type of insults and ribbing.

 

Technophilia: a fetish for any expertise reminiscent of robots, AI and intercourse machines. Kinks for cybernetic enhancements fall into this class, and a few could fetishize the concept of amputations.

 

Teleiophilia: the erotic desire for individuals between the age of bodily maturity and the onset of middle-age. First described in 2000 by Ray Blanchard and Howard Barbaree [16]

 

Telephonicophilia: the fetish for telephone intercourse and soiled speaking over the telephone.

 

Tentacle fetish: fetish for tentacles. Many individuals take pleasure in animated erotica/porn with tentacles, and tentacles dildos additionally lend to this fantasy. Kotaku examines the cultural obsession with tentacles, which can be older than you notice, in keeping with Wikipedia.

 

Teratophilia: attraction to individuals with bodily deformities. This umbrella time period consists of a number of different fetishes on this record together with stigmatophilia, morphophilia, and acrotomophilia. Nevertheless, it might additionally seek advice from a sexual attraction to “precise” monsters. The subreddit for this fetish consists of user-submitted artwork.

 

Thesauromania: kink for gathering girls’s clothes. The collector could give attention to particular gadgets/classes reminiscent of underwear. This put up recounts Japan’s infamous shoe thief, who could have suffered from this fetish.

 

Tickling (Knismolagnia, Knismo, Titillagnia): whereas tickling could be a type of teasing, it’s a kink in its personal proper for some individuals. Those that take pleasure in tickling could take pleasure in surrendering management or struggling to retain it. Tickling to the purpose of urinating can be one taste of this fetish. Tickle torture is a kink for tickling or being tickled whereas sure. Psychology In the present day affords perception into this kink.

 

Transformation fetish: kink for reworking into different individuals and even non-human creatures. TF is widespread in hentai and a few written erotica. Transformation could have quite a lot of causes, which you’ll learn right here.

 

Trichophilia: hair fetish. There may be an energetic subreddit.

 

Triolism: a fetish for threesomes. This will likely embrace a kink for watching your associate have intercourse with another person. Dr. Lehmiller solutions a letter from a reader who experiences this kink.

 

Tripsolagnophilia: therapeutic massage fetish. Even when you don’t have a fetish, a sensual therapeutic massage might be stress-free and it’s good foreplay!

 

Associated: Erotic Therapeutic massage 101 – Sensual Therapeutic massage Strategies

 

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Underwear fetish: the fascination with underwear, often girls’s underwear. Males with this fetish will accumulate, put on or odor underwear. Wikipedia is a good place to study extra about this one. Alternet additionally has a put up that examines how profitable another person’s underwear fetish might be for somebody prepared to promote theirs.

 

Uniforms: many ladies love a person in uniform, however not each couple incorporates this into their intercourse lives. Those that just do might need a uniform fetish. Uniforms, in fact, could make somebody appear to be a robust individual (navy, police and firefighter uniforms are a number of the hottest) or assist you get into the position of a naif (schoolgirl, waitress, Playboy bunny) and a well-fitted uniform exhibits off an individual’s physique in simply the suitable approach. In case your job requires a uniform, you’re in luck. In any other case, you possibly can hit up a dressing up store and even purchase uniform-inspired lingerie.

 

In search of extra data? Take a look at this put up on uniform fetishes by Dr Mark Griffiths or uncover what this kinky individual loves about uniforms.

 

Ursusagalmatophilia: kink for teddy bears or dressing up as a teddy bear/animal. Dr. Mark Giffiths explains extra.

 

Urtication: utilizing the nettle plant to sting a associate’s pores and skin. The follow could assist with joint ache, in keeping with one supply.

 

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Vaccinophilia: vaccination fetish. See additionally medical play and belonephilia.

 

Vicarphilia: being sexually vicarious, particularly associated to having fun with different’s tales of sexual exercise.

 

Vincilagnia: kink for being tied up and on the mercy of one other individual. It is a kind of bondage fetish.

 

Vomit Fetish (Emetophilia): a sexual obsession with the act or substance of vomit. Wikipedia has extra on this one. Or you possibly can learn an this story on Reddit from somebody whose associate was into this kink.

 

Vore/Vorarephilia : sexual need to be eaten alive or to eat somebody whereas they’re nonetheless alive. Vore would extremely harmful and unlawful if tried in actuality, but it surely stays a fantasy for most individuals. You’ll discover loads of artwork and tales devoted to vore on DeviantArt, Tumblr, and Reddit. Wikipedia might be the very best place to seek out out extra about this one.

 

Voyeurism: a kink for watching another person whereas bare or engaged in sexual exercise. Voyeurs and exhibitionists make glorious pairings. Non-consensual voyeurism could also be in opposition to the regulation. Ecouteurism is a associated kink for listening to somebody have intercourse with out permission. The fetish is often known as scopophilia. Psych Central explains how voyeurism and porn watching differ. It’s fairly widespread if these responses from customers on Expertise Mission are any indication.

 

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Watersports (urophilia): A comparatively widespread fetish, watersports are often known as golden showers. This kink includes enjoying with urine, being peed on or urinating on one other individual. Wish to know extra about golden showers? Take a look at this put up from Metro for extra. A selected type of that is wetting: urinating in a single’s underwear and clothes.

 

Wax play: utilizing wax throughout intercourse. Wax comes within the type of therapeutic massage candles, that are comparatively secure. However different forms of wax could have the next melting level and be extra harmful. Flames used to soften wax additionally pose a danger. Study extra right here.

 

Weapon fetish: sexual arousal as a consequence of weapons. This seems in some erotic media.

 

Moist and messy (WAM) fetish: being turned on by being dirty by issues apart from bodily fluids. Also referred to as sploshing. This could embrace meals. One lady tells all in on this account. Buzzfeed seems into the security of the moist and messy fetish.

 

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Xenophilia: sexual attraction to unique individuals or objects. Wikipedia and Dr. Griffiths have extra. That is similar to exoticism.

 

Xylophilia: fetish for wooden. It could even be described as an attraction to nature, sexual or basically.

 

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Yeastiality: sexual exercise involving bread, particularly heat dough. This can be an alleged kink. Introducing yeast to the genitals can result in an an infection.

 

Yiffing: intercourse with stuffed animals or a furry.

 

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Zelophilia: arousal as a consequence of jealousy, both your individual or somebody’s jealousy over you. Cuckhold fantasies are one such instance the place males know – and generally watch – their wives participating in affairs. One reader writes in about how jealousy turned him on.

 

Zentai: carrying skintight fits whereas grinding in opposition to others in comparable fits. Wikipedia has an in depth web page on Zentai fits.

 

Zoophilia: dressing like an animal for intercourse or feeling romantic attraction to animals. Take a look at this detailed Q&A on Reddit a couple of man whose boyfriend is a zoophile.

 

Zoosexual: sexual attraction to animals. See bestiality.

 

Zwischenstufe: the sexual obsession with individuals of the identical intercourse.

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